Friday, April 17, 2009

For My Friends Who are Waiting

For Valarie and Evelyn who are so so very close to having their children with them. We are all standing with you. Thank you for opening your hearts and allowing us to be there. Our world is more full and more lovely because of you. Soon all that love will pour over your children.

On Friendship
Kahlil Gibran

Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.

When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay."
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.


Julie said...

We ARE all standing with you...all of us. Let it be soon.

Evelyn said...


Thanks so much for your outpouring of love. This post made me cry. It's a good day, it's a sad day. It is life :)



-C said...

I am with Julie. Lovely poem too.

Christine said...

Got my rally cap on for all your waiters everywhere. Love Kahlil Gabran. Such a beautiful poem.


Julia said...

Solidarity with the waiters!